Mothers Day

In one years time...



Mother's Day 2012



Mothers Day 2013
It's been a long year since my first Mothers last May, but I still remember it like it was yesterday.  A beautiful brunch at the Sea Pearl and a visit to this magical park in Vienna. 
We didn't have the stroller OR a hat/sun protection for James so our tour of one of the most beautiful places I've ever been was cut short - mom fail.
This year my parents came to visit so we could celebrate mothers day and my mom's birthday - which also fell on Mothers Day.  We had a nice time at church followed by brunch at the country club.  It was pretty amazing, not sure if the raw bar or dessert station were my favorite - but our whole table had a slice of lemon meringue pie - yum!
James is not one to sit still for too long, so I took him out of his highchair to sit on my lap.  Sitting on my lap was not his cup of tea, so he wiggled his way free to crawl around the dining hall at the club.  It was quite an adventure to get him from between the tables, I guess I'll make it a tradition of having mom fails every year.
Needless to say, being a momma is my life's biggest blessing and my friend Melissa really put it best in her post this week.  Motherhood Is

Is it Friday Already?

I certainly feel like its Friday, but this week has flown by. I'm currently sitting in the parking lot at the CC while James snoozes. We had to reschedule my personal training session from earlier in the week to today because James was congested and I didn't want to bring him to spread germs to the other kiddos while I worked out. This time last week I was here getting a massage- hum I prefer that much more than working out with a trainer-ha! Probably why I need to be working out...

James had me up since 4:27. I really didn't want to bring him back down to our room but after about an hour of trying to get him back to sleep we headed downstairs and I pawned him off on Josh, and tried to halfway sleep. We are getting so close to him sleeping through the night again I can taste it. On Wednesday night I thought the monitor was on, however Josh and I awoke refreshed at 6:30 Thursday morning and realized James 'slept' through the night...our first cry it out experience, and we didn't even know it! I may 'forget' to turn the monitor on next week - I think we all need it.



James turned 15 months this week, I want to do an update on him-gosh he's fun and crazy and ALL BOY! He's getting so tall and is so skinny, but he eats like a champ. Last night he picked all the spinach out of his pasta to eat first - proud moma here!



Excited to celebrate Mother's Day and my moms birthday this weekend with my parents and Josh's family. Hope everyone has a great weekend and a very happy Mother's Day!


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We're Home

It's starting to feel that way, even had an impromptu Cinco de Mayo party last night.

Just a few more boxes to unpack...

 

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Good Morning

Good morning from our new kitchen!



Josh must have found our family prayer that my mom cross stitched for us as a wedding gift last night. When I saw it this morning, I felt at home.



The frame and matting match our kitchen perfectly. That and finally getting to make coffee the way I like it helped, too!

I missed my Keurig. A LOT!


Molly has has me up since 4 scared of the thunder storm and James followed at 5 which will most likely be his call time the rest of the week until he gets settled.

It's great to have our girl back and it looks like she is feeling at home, too.


I will get an more coordinating dog bed once we figure out a decorating style/scheme for this area.

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Growing Up

So what has James been up to in his 14th month?

He now proudly says momma, dadda, Josh, bye, bye Josh, hat, hi, ball, beau (grandparents dog and what he calls all dogs)

He loves his shoes, since he isn't walking yet they are purely an accessory- but one he must have on at all times. I even put him down for his nap today in his crocs hoping that would make him happy - it did not. First thing when he wakes up in the morning he goes to find a pair of shoes (he has three) if he can't find a pair of his he tries to put on a pair of Joshes. Somehow he knows not to wear Mommas. He can put his toes in, but hasn't gotten his heal quite yet. His favorite are his crocs, although I try not to do those all too often as I don't know if they will impede his walking attempts. However he toddled around in them a little this afternoon, so who knows. We say socks and shoes as well as do the sign language for them, but he has a certain whine/grunt that I know means please put my shoes on, or my shoe fell off get it get it!

He graduated from ISR swim lessons in 2.5 weeks, he completed the floating phase and we'll go back to swim to the wall later this summer when he's walking. He's a great floater and we practice what he learned in swim lessons in grandma and grandpas pool- maybe we will get to give ours a try this weekend (wishful thinking I know).



We spend our afternoons going to Gymboree or one of the very many nearby parks.



He's getting better at hanging out in the gym daycare and church nursery. Mommy loves that!

He's not very into books right now, I feel like I'm reading them to myself, but I still read to him 30 minutes to an hour everyday.

He loves breakfast at the hotel and going out to eat because he loves people and makes friends everywhere we go. He has his girlfriends here at the hotel and I'm not sure how he is going to do having to eat all his meals just with me. He likes to talk to, wave and flirt with the ladies for sure!


Oh and that snaggle tooth grin of his, it was breaking my heart really really breaking my heartNow I really really love it!



We picked blueberries last week which was interesting with a stroller, crawler/carried little boy who doesn't particularly like blueberries.


I've realized that he understands just about everything I say and although his vocabulary is limited to a very southern drawl of baaaalll and beaaau - we know what the other person means almost 100% of the time.

Even when he's squirming out of my arms, refusing to sit still or do the things I ask - I still love spending just about every waking and sleeping (we are in a hotel suite) moment with my sweet little boy.

I can't wait to bring him to the house he will grow up in tomorrow!

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Getting Excited

I've been guarded trying not to get 'too' excited about moving into our new home for fear one of the many things involved in buying and moving may go wrong and I don't know...we live in a Marriott for the rest of our lives.

Yesterday we had our walk through, and I'm officially excited!

Lots of work ahead, lots of painting and lots and lots of furniture to buy, but I'm really excited to make it ours!! Closing in a few more days, and I can't wait to spend our first night there, red walls and all.

We've been more than warmly welcomed by friends. As lost as I feel some days, others I feel completely at home, and so happy to have such great friends back in our day to day lives.

Weekly play dates with one of my sorority sisters has been so fun, even more fun celebrating her son and sisters son's first birthdays. Added bonus lots of long-lost college cums and seeing their kiddos as well. I don't know what's nicer seeing old friends or meeting their children. It's such a treat either way.








Girls nights out with such wonderful friends, I've never appreciated a cheesy fondu dinner at melting pot so much.

Sharing special traditions with some of my very best friends. I had a moment of knowing I was living the dream, as Josh often puts it. Sipping mimosas with her at the same beach restaurant where we hosted her baby shower a few years back - our boys now sitting next to each other sharing cheese grits. Sharing memories and making new ones as gulf coast breezes blew through the courtyard. Yes- we are home.

I know Gods been listening to my prayers, and lead me to run into one of my sorority sisters at the country club gym on Monday. Talk about a warm welcome and words of encouragement and inspiration that I needed to hear. So excited to connect with her, and a few hours later a call from yet another college friend and sister, her voice was music to my ears, can't wait to get together and reconnect with all these great people.

I feel even more at home in the church we attended and were married in. We've been more than warmly welcomed back, and the homemade banana bread they brought to the hotel yesterday was surly a happy treat.

While I'm still figuring it all out, and feel like a fish out of water more than I'd like to, this new chapter is really starting to take shape. I'm so grateful to be creating a nest for our family, cherishing old friendships getting a fresh start, and enjoying making new friends along the way.


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The Tooth Fairy Came Early

Yesterday was a bigger day than I was expecting it to be.

James had a dark spot on one of his front teeth that has been bothering me and when I noticed a chip on the backside, I thought it was worth asking one of my very best friends, who happens to be a pediatric PA about it.   She reviewed the risks with me: exposed nerve, risk for infection, etc - so I called a few pediatric dentists to have my little guy checked out.  We ended up taking James to the same practice my husband went to as a child and they were fantastic! 

After an exam and x-rays we discovered that his little front tooth never fully developed and his nerve was exposed.  It wasn't infected, but was at risk both the his health and the development of his permanent tooth.  It was in his best interest to have that little baby tooth pulled.  They wrapped him in the little baby papoose and I sang to him and held his little hands and legs under the purple wrap.  I know we did the right thing for him, but I'm still a little sad about it.  I took one last shot of his teethy grin before my 14 month old went from 5 teeth back to 4.

This whole experience has me in awe of God's mastery in creating us - everything that comes together for each of us to be who we are is such a miracle.  So very grateful for his guidance in our parenting and creating James to be such a special little boy who may just spend the next 6 or 7 Christmases wishing for his two front teeth...

Just where we left off...

Well I feel like we are starting to get acclimated to the Florida lifestyle.  We are living in a hotel like most of the state's inhabitants (tourists).

I've mapped out every storytime, music class, and park in a 20 mile radius - James and I leave the hotel by 8:30 every morning and hopefully return by 12, so we both don't have to sit in the car for his whole nap - unfortunatly my non-transferring son is taking lots of carseat naps...still. So sometimes we are in the car for 3 hours - which is taking it's toll on my back.

We had a very festive weekend - pizza party on Friday night with some of our very best friends.  Joined the country club, got very creative with carseat napping, had new tires and brakes put on Josh's Xterra, and had a festive dinner at the Columbia on Sand Key and an unfortunate heimlich done on a 1-year-old who liked daddys red velvet birthday cake a little too much on Saturday.  Sunday - we celebrated Josh's Birthday - he is now the same age as me again - it's a hard three months I have being older than my husband =)

All the festivities are surely fun, but they are running our little guy (and me) ragged - his bedtime was 6:30 before we moved and this weekend it was more like 9:30 - poor fella.  I'm really focusing on us getting back on track.  Eating almost every meal out - takes up so much time and calories.  I've gained 10 pounds in the 2 weeks we've been back - not what I was expecting.  Hello I live in FL now, we have a pool in our soon to be backyard, I need to be in a bathing suit all the time and we go to Hawaii in June.  Getting into a normal schedule this week of working out and walks everyday and eating a few more meals in our little kitchenette - I've been making a knock off Trader Joes Kale and Edamame Salad and my all time fav Warm Quinoa Salad.  Which reminds me, I need to write Trader Joe's again to remind them I need them to open a store in the Tampa Bay Region ASAP (I try to do this weekly-I have such fantastic priorities). 

Speaking of priorities, I feel like I should know how I want to decorate our new home.  I just don't know in the least....

We are almost tripling the square footage we had in Virginia - so I know we will need a few rooms worth of furniture - ha.  I will be working around the a lot of the previous owners designs and really have a hard time thinking how to deal with half of the first floor in black and white imported Carrera marble floors.  Actually I do have a pretty good game plan for dealing with that, I think the real problem is I like to weigh out my options more than "do things."  I can't even commit to a rug for the play room, I think I have about 15 in shopping carts around the world wide web right now- I'm obviously going to have lots of issues decorating.  Just thinking of which rooms to have the movers place our existing furniture makes me anxious.

But I do love our neighborhood and usually drive by our new home once a day- hope no one has noticed yet =)

I love the spanish moss hanging from the oaks lining the roadways. 

 I love that the temperature drops 5 degrees when you pull into the neighborhood - thanks to all the woodlands and conservation.  I love that we see dear, turtles, every type of bird and even alligators on our daily walks.  I really love that the flag poles on every mailbox wave Old Glory - I can't wait for the fourth of July at our new house!

Very excited to be home, and I'm ready to get settled in.  Just a few more weeks!

Easter Weekend

What a gorgeous first weekend for us to spend in Florida.

Each holiday (actually each day) gets more fun as James grows up.

Who's ready for an Easter Egg Hunt?


For all the money we've spent at striderite, James started standing and taking his first assisted steps in his Easter white high tops.




He loves these shoes and cries to hold them when I take them off him. Who knew?

He also loves playing grandmas piano.



On Saturday we all went to the Egg Hunt at the country club in our new neighborhood.


James loved the Easter Bunny.



We are buying a house in the same neighborhood where Josh grew up, and like to joke about having grandma and grandpa's club account already memorized!


I let James practice hunting eggs before the actual event started. Even though the sections were divided by age, we didn't think he stood a chance of getting any when the hunt began.



We were pleasantly surprised at his egg hunting abilities, he held his own in the 5 and under group!


Checking out his prizes with daddy.



He's a fan of Easter egg hunts, I think he loved seeing all the other kids the most.



Despite being tired, he would NOT take a nap. He finally 'napped' at 5:30, Josh and I took the opportunity of a sleeping baby at his grandparents house to go out to dinner to the neighborhood sushi restaurant- it was pretty amazing.


Sunday morning brought Easter Basket goodness. We've been reading his Easter books for the past month or so. Haven't learned to buy batteries when buying toys yet. I bought extra bubble solution, but we still can't experience our bubble hurricane just yet.


The real reason for this weekend is the celebration of the gift of eternal life Jesus gave to all of us. Never before have I been more grateful for his sacrifices.

We visited a new satellite campus of one of the larger churches on this side of town. This was their first Sunday open and the facility was just minutes outside of our new neighborhood. I loved the pastor and the message, but I must be one of the few who prefers hymns on Sunday morning instead of a rock concert. While I do want to find a close neighborhood church, I may be willing to make the 30 minute drive to the church I went to and love in South Tampa.



We finished our afternoon with a visit from my parents and Molly. We had a great time together even though the Gators lost in the elite 8 to Michigan.

James managed to spill an entire sippy cup if water on himself, guess he's ready for swim lessons to start on Tuesday!

It took 7 days, but James finally took a nap in the right place (his crib, not the car) at the right time (12:30).

I'm writing this on Monday at 1:30 and listening to him jibber jabber in his crib and not sleep- after a wrong place (car seat) wrong time (11) cat nap this morning. Agh!

I will get us back on schedule some day!

Dinner was great at one of our favorite beachy restaurants. It feels good to be home.



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We Made It

We are in FL, James is taking his first hotel nap. Sure beats driving around for two hour stints to get this poor, tired child to sleep.

We are getting the hang of things and hotel living for the next month will be an adventure for sure.

Off to Gymboree so this child can have a little more play space!

We've been having fun with grandparents and looking forward to celebrating Easter this weekend.

Bunny ears at the library



Swinging on a chilly FL day


Playing with trains



Breakfast at the hotel



Out to dinner with daddy



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The Golden Rule

Sticking to the old adage, "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all."

Because I don't have a lot of nice things to say right now, but here's a try.

Enjoying stealing a few moments with friends here before we leave and cuddling with James all night long.

Don't know if it is the time change or new teeth that's had us up since 4 am. I'm secretly thankful he found my iPhone and quietly played with it in bed from 6:30-7:30, while I was in a half awake/sleep haze. Just a few changed settings and calls only to close family members to report so far, I'm sure ill make some more discoveries.

Guess we are going to play now - as nap time isn't happening.

Here's a fun pic from last week.


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Two Weeks from Today

When Josh came to say goodbye before leaving for work this morning, he asked if I realized that the packers will be here two weeks from today.  Yes and no...

We are in the process of buying a beautiful home in FL and selling ours here, all the bumps up and down in these processes have been a little hard on me.  I'm inspired to have a positive attitude focusing on moving forward, and not getting angry and upset with just about every little detail of this relocation.

We are so excited for the next chapter in our lives, but I'm having a hard time closing the one here.  The next few weeks will be spent jamming in as much time with friends as possible, visiting a few museums and saying goodbye to the only place we've lived as a married couple. 

Needless to say I want to get in as much good as possible, and there is a lot of good friends, good food and good times to be had.  I may have been one of the few who enjoyed the late-in-the-year snow storm yesterday, because it will be one of the last I'll experience, that is until we go skiing next spring. 

James liked it, too.

We had a fantastic time seeing the works of the worlds best artists this past weekend, and knocking a few more restaurants off our DC bucket list.  Excited that peak cherry blossom bloom will be the week we leave and am so thrilled to take James to see them in all their splendor.

Michelangelo's David-Apollo at the National Gallery of Art

So we are off to write the final few pages of our life in the nations capitol, I hope the next few weeks are a good finale to whats been the best part of my life thus far.

Rainbows and Sunshine

I knew buying, selling and moving would be a little crazy.  But I being in the trenches feels a little like being sucker punched in the gut and wacked on the head with a bat simultaneously after running a marathon.

The marathon being, cleaning, packing and staging our home.  With a baby to look after, that only happened after he was asleep.  Since the beginning of January I've been averaging 4 hours of sleep a night.  Obviously resulting in me being cheerful, positive and productive all day long...

Ironically I know we are so unbelievably blessed with the circumstances of our move, being able to sell our home, and being able to afford something more comfortable in Florida, but for some reason all I can see is the negative and boy, do I want to complain!  Josh is beyond tired of hearing about ALLLL my troubles which could be listed a few tiers above first world problems to say the least.

To be honest our selling process probably isn't that painful, it's all the uncertainty.  Just when I think it's figured out wham, bang, boom - no ma'am it ain't happening that way.

My sons sleep schedule - forget about it.  We went into listing on a two nap a day schedule - which we were both very happy with.  Now I have a very confused and tired unscheduled little guy, and I'm still trying to figure out how I get to take a shower if he won't take a dang nap. 

Don't get me started on decorating and undercoating for his birthday party, for impromptu showings - it was AWESOME.  I know I deserve to be stabbed with a plastic party fork for complaining.

My main frustration is why I'm having such a hard time trusting in GOD?  I know we are in his hands, he molded the path we are cruising down - yet all I want to do is yank every issue and problem back from him and sulk.

So I've been spending James' new nap time checking a few things off the old to-do list and trying to pray for positivity, when what I really want to do is bang my head against my desk because I just realized 3/4 of the places that we thought we were going to be looking at in FL are under contract and I'm not exactly thrilled with the few remaining on our list. 

All rainbows and sunshine over here....

My Little Valentine

Loved spending valentines day with this little one who has totally stolen my heart.








I fall more in love with him everyday. So glad to be his mommy and that my main squeeze loves and supports us so that everyday can be a love fest at our house!

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